I said my hello's to my aunt and uncle with who I was staying.
It was late afternoon when I arrived after my three and a bit hours' drive. We both knew that the other played away from home, but we never discussed it. I guessed that she would take advantage of the open nature of our marriage to get herself fucked by one of her several admirer. Kelly, my wife of just over twenty years couldn't travel with me and I ended up going alone. That all changed about six years ago when I was visiting family in the north of England. Also I had not been on a date, been picked up or seduced or been with anyone other than a gay masseur outside the sauna.
I had not though been fucked nor had I fucked anyone. I had moved onto kissing and mutual massage before getting into oral both ways.
I had been wanked numerous times and had returned such favours to probably ten or so guys. Over perhaps a two year period, I had 'met' guys there and done most things. My experiments had started by visiting a gay sauna. I think it was the need to explore and try new things, but then it might just be nature or the way I am. I cannot even begin to explain why I tried it and to this day, many years later I am still unable give a reasonable explanation of why I started. So, if you get busted for having sex in a car parked on a busy street sometime in the future, just say you were doing it in the name of science.Most people who explore their bisexual side will have different reasons for doing it and why they decided to try it. “The future study of sex in parked cars in urban environments is recommended.” (Looking for something new to add to your sex life? Try the Tiani 2 Couples Massager from the Women's Health Boutique.) Related: The 7 WORST Things About Car Sex “These data, including personal stories of memorable incidents, revealed that despite discomfort, body bumps, and risk of being caught, sex while parked was primarily a positive sexual and romantic experience for both men and women,” they said in the study. We’re just going to let the researchers take it from here. Related: This Is the Age When You Have The Best Sex of Your Life Less than 1 percent of those who got it on in a car said they contracted an STI or got pregnant from the experience. Most people had P-in-V action and genital touching (85 percent and 56 percent of people, respectively), but just 58 percent used condoms. The majority (63 percent) said they did it in the backseat of a standard car (56 percent) that was parked in the country (56 percent). Researchers also asked really specific questions about where people actually got it on in the car. (Presumably since you could just do it at home when you live together.)Ĭheck out this lively he-said, she-said about having sex in a car: But the majority of people-about 60 percent-said they recently did it in the car with someone they were serious with but didn’t actually live with. Related: What Men ALWAYS Notice About You During SexĪs you can probably guess, people are more likely to do it in a car with someone they’re in a relationship with versus a random hookup. About 60 percent of them said they’ve had sex in a parked car at some point-and of those, 14 percent say they lost their virginity that way. The findings were published in The Journal of Sex Research.įor the study, scientists conducted an anonymous survey of college students-195 men and 511 women. It’s always fascinating to know how and when people get it on-so that you can figure out if you’re missing out on something good.Ī team of scientists from the University of South Dakota decided to turn our fascination into an actual study with a very specific focus: They researched people who get it on in parked cars (seriously).